Saturday, May 1, 2010

Overcoming toddler's delinquency

Children, especially toddlers, desperately need attention from their parents, try to notice if a parent just busy doing something and as ignoring the toddler, a toddler will do anything to attract the attention of the mother or father.

And it is usually in the form of mischief or acts of nuisance, so usually the parent anger was hooked. When the circle of this process is always repeated, busy parents, childrenacting and parents become angry, then returned to the bustle, what a child might feel is disappointment. Not to mention the sayings pitched out of parents mouth.

For example "bad boy" or others. Speech like that, other than there's no point because it will not improve the child's behavior, also formed a negative self concept in children. There are several possible ways to overcome the child's misbehavior which repeated. By expressing compassion, for example, Toddlers always want more attention from parents.

They will be happy if parents show an expression of affection. For example, by holding, rubbing his head or just talking with gentleness. You also need to have patience with the mischievous toddler. Parent's patience is required when educating children.

Patience from parents sometimes can make a child understand that what he was doing is wrong. In contrary violence will increasingly child behaviors to resist and rebel. That is why this work need extra patience from parents.
Although toddlers do wrong, do not immediately snapped them. Because it will hurt her feelings. This can cause resentment to the child when he/she grew up. Revenge on the child will also affect the nature of her future as adults. Your baby will become irritable person and like to do violence. Be angry if the child actually has one, such as spitting on mother or father. However, before gently give advice because the child will touch the soul with gentleness.

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